Duties of the Matron of Honour

The Matron of Honour (sometimes referred to as the Chief Bridesmaid or the Maid of Honour) is one of the key players in the wedding party. She will have a pivotal role to play throughout the day, and in the run up to the big day itself as well. From organising the hen party, through to being in charge of the Bridesmaids on the day itself, the Matron of Honour must be willing to assist with whatever tasks are thrown her way. 

We have compiled a list of traditional duties.

Be a shoulder to cry on when the Bride feels down, an expert listener when she has a lot to get off her chest and a stand-up comic when she needs a good old laugh!

Organise the hen party

Assist the Bride in choosing suitable Bridesmaid outfits

Attend all relevant dress fittings and ensuring that all the other Bridesmaids do likewise.

Attend any Wedding rehearsals and making sure that the other Bridesmaids do likewise.

Help the Bride to get dressed on the day of the wedding.

Make sure all Bridesmaids are ready in good time with hair and make-up sorted and dresses in place. She should also ensure that each Bridesmaid has the correct bouquet and that none of them get in the way of the Bride’s preparations.

Travel to the wedding ceremony with the other Bridesmaids and Mother of the Bride.

Assist the Bride out of the vehicle when she arrives at the ceremony and help her with any last minute adjustments to the dress and veil.

Hold the Bride’s bouquet during the wedding service.

Accompany the Best Man (on his left hand side) as they depart the wedding ceremony.

Stand in the receiving Line to greet guests.

Dance with the Best Man as part of the first dance.